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Originally Posted by jonelle514 
This is going to sound insane, but I would be more comfortable with him being with another woman if he didn't act like a highschool girl...
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It doesn't sound insane at all, maybe that's because I was thinking the very same thing...your husband is acting like a high school boy. This can happen to men or women when the swing bug bites them. It's like their brain flies out of their skull! It's funny, yet not so funny, and can be a sign of big problems if not dealt with immediately. He's got to come to his senses and you'll need to help him get there.
There are many problems with your scenario already: he wants you to continue playing with this couple and you have no interest in either of them after having your first experience with them. Right there this should be reason enough to stop seeing them. Neither of you should ever take one for the team when you swing. And the jealousy thing between your husband and this other woman, bad all the way around.
Right now your husband is not taking your concerns seriously. He needs to, and he needs to cool it with this woman while you two talk more about what your limits are, how you will mutually approach selecting couples, and all the other guidelines couples make when swinging.
Bring your husband here, to the Swingers Board, to read and learn about swinging. Together you can avoid problems and find a solution to handling your differences.
To be happy swingers you have to travel down the same road together, and right now you aren't.
Keep us posted.
LM