Hello jonelle514!

-- Glad you found us!
Since you're new, there are some areas of the site you should be sure to check out:
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If you have any questions, feel free to post them in the appropriate sub-forums. The community here is very knowledgeable and helpful with all aspects of the swinging lifestyle.
We have posted a response to your question in the other thread
here. Hopefully some others will chime in with their thoughts on this as well.
Once again,