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Old 11-11-2008, 07:07 PM   #20 (permalink)
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Default Re: Is it common or appropriate to use an alias when contacting a club?

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Originally Posted by SexyRedmondCpl View Post
Now hold on a minute. We never said that swinging was mainstream or accepted. We acknowledge the taboo that we all live here. We all take the precautions that we feel are necessary to protect our privacy.

However, I feel it appropriate to point out that privacy is an illusion only second to data security. Anything that you put on the net is not only not 100% secure, it's 100% insecure. The malcontents you speak of can most definately access your private pics if they're so determined.

Besides, if your parents, extended family, and co-workers find you on Swing Lifestyle, then they are just as guilty. And if your young teens do, then you have a bigger issue, now don't you?
Of course you never mentioned that swinging is mainstream or accepted but by inferring that "if you can't afford to get caught" then by proxy you infer that it is acceptable. We never suggested that our young teens, parents or extended family would find us on Swing Lifestyle. We suggested that we are not ready to divulge to them our little secret just because we find it acceptable. We also made it clear that we understand that it is possible for those with the aptitude to access what we consider private but the only option we have is to take as much precaution as possible. And surely, yourselves not being that far removed from the age bracket of our young teens, we understand more then you that this is a different era we live in, and trolling the computer these days is as much akin as to sneaking into your parents closet of yesteryear.
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