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Old 11-10-2008, 10:24 PM   #14 (permalink)
cplnuswing
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Default Re: Getting Started Question

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Originally Posted by PB&J View Post
It amazes me how many playmates use their real name on their email when it's so easy to make it fake.
We received a message on Swing Lifestyle one time from someone local who had just put up a profile. One of those "Hi, we're just getting started, etc." We weren't interested for a number of reasons, the first of which is we don't play that close to home, and second, this user had the initial feel anyway of a fantasizing husband, not a couple.

We replied "sorry, too close to home, but good luck". The answer we got back was something like "I understand, discretion is very important to me too, especially in such a small town. But, if you ever change your mind, just email me at ..." and then he gave a ISP email address that included his name. The Mrs thought a minute, then said "I know who that is, he's the minister at so and so church!" My answer was "well, he won't be for much longer if he makes that mistake again" I kinda felt sorry for the guy - assuming he realized his mistake, you talk about having an "oh shit" moment!!
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