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Old 11-10-2008, 12:26 AM   #10 (permalink)
Mr.Essex
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If I were in your shoes, I'd spend a weekend in a larger city and make plans accordingly. It's far easier to be anonymous in a place like New York. You could travel south for a few days, visit one of their clubs and take it's measure, then go home with (presumeably) noone the wiser. Worst case scenario, neither one of you enjoys yourself (unlikely, but possible) and you won't have to deal with savvy owners deciding to send "discreet" flyers to your door. And before I forget, a "play" E-Mail address is a lifesaver. Ten minutes on Yahoo or Google to set up an account, and you can be sure to receive any new offers or party information without worrying about a snoopy housekeeper or relative being wise.
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