The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Is it common or appropriate to use an alias when contacting a club?

xyzzy07 · 11-09-2008, 07:56 PM

We started by going to a hotel party in another city. We did use our full names to register because they wanted to see IDs, but I used a nickname for introductions (mainly to make it easier for people to remember). Don't be put off by hotel parties. The scene in the ballroom is reasonably tame, and you can leave the secure after-party area whenever you want. Even there, things don't get at all crazy. It's just that you're likely to see some public displays of affection.

You'll enjoy the dirty dancing even if you decide to go no further. That was our plan the first time, but a woman approached my wife in a very easy going way, and my wife ended up with her very first girl-girl experience. Worked out great.

By the way, we've been going back to party with that same group and have met many fine couples.

11-09-2008, 07:56 PM	#7 (permalink)
xyzzy07 Here to Stay Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 79 Location: NC, USA Status: Male of a couple Swing Lifestyle Name:ScorpioSphinx	Re: Getting Started Question We started by going to a hotel party in another city. We did use our full names to register because they wanted to see IDs, but I used a nickname for introductions (mainly to make it easier for people to remember). Don't be put off by hotel parties. The scene in the ballroom is reasonably tame, and you can leave the secure after-party area whenever you want. Even there, things don't get at all crazy. It's just that you're likely to see some public displays of affection. You'll enjoy the dirty dancing even if you decide to go no further. That was our plan the first time, but a woman approached my wife in a very easy going way, and my wife ended up with her very first girl-girl experience. Worked out great. By the way, we've been going back to party with that same group and have met many fine couples.