The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Is it common or appropriate to use an alias when contacting a club?

arvcpl · 11-08-2008, 05:54 PM

I think going to an off-premise club would be a great place to start and encourage you to go.

As far as the alias thing, do whatever it takes to get in the door and start meeting people. We went to a club once that stated on their website that if you wanted to call yourself Mickey and Minnie that was fine with them.

I will say that using an alias will set yourself up for more attention and more suspician and more embarrassment when your real name slips out and it will always slip out at some point.

Also, once you have gotten in the door and have used this alias for a few minutes you will quickly be comfortable enough that you will feel silly using it and will look back on it and think it was pretty silly and unnecessary.

11-08-2008, 05:54 PM	#5 (permalink)
arvcpl Has Left the Building Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 172 Location: Arvada, co Status: couple	Re: Getting Started Question I think going to an off-premise club would be a great place to start and encourage you to go. As far as the alias thing, do whatever it takes to get in the door and start meeting people. We went to a club once that stated on their website that if you wanted to call yourself Mickey and Minnie that was fine with them. I will say that using an alias will set yourself up for more attention and more suspician and more embarrassment when your real name slips out and it will always slip out at some point. Also, once you have gotten in the door and have used this alias for a few minutes you will quickly be comfortable enough that you will feel silly using it and will look back on it and think it was pretty silly and unnecessary.