 Re: Getting Started Question
Congratulations...... Sounds like you have discussed things to the point you are ready to jump in. You sound very similar to ourselves in respect to finding an off premises club or a meet and greet to get your toes wet. We found several meet and greets in our area that we wanted to attend for our first foray into the lifestyle but they never seemed to fit into our crazy schedules. We ended up going to a swinger club for our for experience. It really work out well. Contrary to what we thought it was really laid back and no pressure at all. Nobody chased us around the club, we didn't play that nite, (with others or ourselves) and really had a relaxing great time. The manager of the club was super friendly and went out of his way to make us feel comfortable.
As for giving an alias, we have never done that although we don't have high profile careers either. Actually the only time we had ever given our last names was when we signed up to become members of our local swing clubs. We did have to show ID when becoming a member. But as for people we have played with or met......no one knows our last names and no one has ever asked, but I guess if you felt more at ease giving those people an alias I don't think it would be a big deal. Believe us, no one would really know or care anyway. Good Luck
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