The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Is it common or appropriate to use an alias when contacting a club?

lizandtom · 11-08-2008, 05:13 PM

You've got the right idea about crawling before walking; vis a vis off premise to check things out first before diving into the deep end of the pool. You should not need an invitation to head to an off premise club. Everything should be public and open about the club whereas a private invite isn't warranted. Check whether you can just show up, pay their door fee and maybe a once per year membership fee, and just head in. It should be as easy as that with no names required. I really wouldn't sweat the "we're too publicly recognizable to be seen" thing. It's overrated and you'll find that even if you were the mayor, it really wouldn't be a big thing because an off premise club is just another club, period.

11-08-2008, 05:13 PM	#2 (permalink)
lizandtom Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Sep 2004 Posts: 287 Location: Long Island, NY Status: Couple	Re: Getting Started Question You've got the right idea about crawling before walking; vis a vis off premise to check things out first before diving into the deep end of the pool. You should not need an invitation to head to an off premise club. Everything should be public and open about the club whereas a private invite isn't warranted. Check whether you can just show up, pay their door fee and maybe a once per year membership fee, and just head in. It should be as easy as that with no names required. I really wouldn't sweat the "we're too publicly recognizable to be seen" thing. It's overrated and you'll find that even if you were the mayor, it really wouldn't be a big thing because an off premise club is just another club, period.