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Originally Posted by acorn42047  What would we be called if we wanted to bring another into our relationship? At the begining by definition you can't be a polyamorist because you don't know if you love the other person. Not because I need a label but what are you called while your looking? What if your not looking for another to fall in love with? |
I think if you're open to having an emotional attachment with a third party (or more), you are polyamorous even if you haven't yet met someone.
A book I really like is The Ethical Slut. I found it helped me clarify things in my head.