[WesternSwing]

For us it wasn't a couple that was our first poly experience, it was a single male. We'd had some close friendships with other swinger couples, but nothing where romantic love had ever developed. Than came "the one".

He was a single guy we met that was just fabulous. In fact this guy set the bar too high for other single males. He was that good. But then again, he'd been married and in the lifestyle, so since he'd been on both side of it he knew the score.

So we hit it off from the first time we met and Mrs. WS and him started a very close friendship. I was traveling allot and he would hang around while I was gone and look after my family and even went and collected my teenage daughter from a party she wasn't supposed to be at one night. Him and I were friends as well and we all three hung-out together quite a bit. We had threesomes with him, Mrs. WS would stay with him at his house sometimes. We were a happy little triad.

The words "I love you" were never said, but it was obvious. But, he was looking for more than we could provide, which was eventually a wife and family of his own. The depth of the emotions were quite obvious when Mrs. WS and him broke-up. Mrs. WS was devastated. For months. I finally sat down with her and made her out loud admit she was in love with him, which she was very afraid to say for fear of hurting me. But admitting it to me, her best friend in the world as well as her lover and husband, was a huge step toward healing that wound.

Since then nothing has come really close to that. Allot of men have drifted through our life, but none of them really "get it" past the sex part. Several women have been possibilities, but they also were looking for a more traditional relationship, so having sex with us and hanging-out with us was one thing, but they broke it off when they started developing romantic emotions for us.

But, if the opportunity presents itself again, we are ready.

Mr. WS