 Re: Trying to talk my wife into swinging
Didn't mean to make it statement with out variations or offend.
I think that when someone represses a thought or desire it effects them in ways they may not be aware of. A previous poster was talking about his wifes lack of desire. It was simply something I noticed in the post and in my own life. So the jist was if some one buries thier sexual desires CAN it also shut down thier sex drive. (which is what I think maybe happening in my sitituation) My wife will make very vague remarks, and when I ask for a little more information she refuses and shut right down. I have approached this in diffrent ways and guessing what she is trying to communicate has been about 50/50.
While I do not deny you have no fantasy you are also living in a lifestyle that offers more than what is availible to the "vanilla" world. Besides I doubt anyone in the SL can be called frigid, passive, unadventurous, or without interest in sex.
I have been with other women, before being married, that were not comfortable talking about thier sexual desires or wants. ( One of the reasons I enjoy this board is because people tend to be more willing to share thoughts, and I have learned a thing or two)
There is also the possiblity that I miss read your post, I don't always catch tone. If I upset you I apologize.
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