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slevin · 11-01-2008, 08:32 AM

Excellent advice, as always, from iapr and also from pervgeeks.

To build on that, since I totally agree this is a relationship issue; what are you doing to make her sexually excited? Are you active outside of the house and your marriage? Are you going to the gym, pursuing hobbies, playing sports, trying new activities, having time out with friends, doing things with your kids, inviting her to try new (non-sexual) things with you? Are you living an exciting life? Are you seducing her, flirting with her?

Or are you sitting at home, watching TV and hoping she'll be a horny slut that wants to fuck when you're done with football? (Bad stereotype, not suggesting this is actually you, just making a point).

The thing about a relationship is that often times most problems can be solved by one of the two people taking a leadership role.

11-01-2008, 08:32 AM	#13 (permalink)
slevin Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2008 Posts: 1,215 Location: Toronto Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:sk_forfun	Re: Trying to talk my wife into swinging Excellent advice, as always, from iapr and also from pervgeeks. To build on that, since I totally agree this is a relationship issue; what are you doing to make her sexually excited? Are you active outside of the house and your marriage? Are you going to the gym, pursuing hobbies, playing sports, trying new activities, having time out with friends, doing things with your kids, inviting her to try new (non-sexual) things with you? Are you living an exciting life? Are you seducing her, flirting with her? Or are you sitting at home, watching TV and hoping she'll be a horny slut that wants to fuck when you're done with football? (Bad stereotype, not suggesting this is actually you, just making a point). The thing about a relationship is that often times most problems can be solved by one of the two people taking a leadership role.