Hi,
Swinging is and has been a topic of conversation for me and my wife for a very long time. Everyone will advise you that communication is a must. And I completely agree with that.
Swinging is a mindset that has to be nurtured and let mature. I have made mistakes in introducing my wife to others with the intent of swinging and we had even spoken about it. But then everything never happens as planned.
Keep your communication channels all open, but try not to badger her into taking over a swinging mindset. She will be ready when she will be ready.
My communication channels opened with my wife on the day after we got married. And it took her 18 years to have her breast massaged for 3 minutes by another person. This happened 3 weeks ago. Today, she wants to try being BI...Am I surprised? Hell yeah!. But it is upto her when she really wants to do something different.
So keep communicating with her and introduce her to this forum. Lots of experienced people/couples and tons of friendly advice.
Keep the fun going -
