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Originally Posted by cplnuswing  There isn't any magic way of presenting it that will result in a yes, and even after having good communication based on sound information the answer may very well still be no, but at least you will know that the subject got a serious discussion, just like any other serious decision than can affect your relationship should. |
To this, cplnuswing, I might add that my wife, JoAnn, is the one who brought the idea to me. The barrier over which I had to climb was my male ego. I had to find my own reason to think it was
my idea. I offer this as a hint about the way that some men think.