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dnmnms · 10-26-2008, 01:15 PM

Well, forums where he can read and get educated about what the LS is really like. People have a misconception sometimes as to what the LS really is/can be. Dont try to rush anything...take things slow and that way he can get adjusted to the idea of whats real and what isnt.
Then again, he may never be comfortable with this but for sure if it is to be a positive experience then both people have to be interested/comfortable and not just doing it to please theother.
Now, a question for you....What if he decides he is interested in exploring this then after a little experience he decides he wants to get into it a little farther...Say he wants a MFMF experience. Would you be confortable with that? Make sure you know what you want out of this before opening that door as it would be very unfair to him if you opened him up to the LS then put the brakes on him if he wanted to venture out a little more IMHO.

Melody

10-26-2008, 01:15 PM	#2 (permalink)
dnmnms Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 160 Location: Mississippi Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:dnmnms	Re: I'm interested, hubby maybe not.... Well, forums where he can read and get educated about what the LS is really like. People have a misconception sometimes as to what the LS really is/can be. Dont try to rush anything...take things slow and that way he can get adjusted to the idea of whats real and what isnt. Then again, he may never be comfortable with this but for sure if it is to be a positive experience then both people have to be interested/comfortable and not just doing it to please theother. Now, a question for you....What if he decides he is interested in exploring this then after a little experience he decides he wants to get into it a little farther...Say he wants a MFMF experience. Would you be confortable with that? Make sure you know what you want out of this before opening that door as it would be very unfair to him if you opened him up to the LS then put the brakes on him if he wanted to venture out a little more IMHO. Melody