The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Single male with erectile dysfunction, am I wasting my time

chgocupl · 10-25-2008, 01:35 PM

I was always told as I grew up that if you CAN'T do anythng about a problem, DON'T worry about it, and if you CAN do something about a problem, DON'T worry about it!! The point I'm making is you CAN do something about the weight, and you should try. You CAN do something about a partner, and you should try. You CAN'T so anything, probably, about the ED, so don't worry about it, there are lots of other ways to satisfy a partner. Get to know those, and both of you will enjoy. I too, have ED, and my wife had a stroke 5 yrs ago. Both those facts are on our profile prominently so we get those out on the table up front. Those that don't like it will pass us by, to the many others that we have and currently swing with, it is obviously not a problem. Work on the issues you can fix, and remember life is short, make the most of it.

10-25-2008, 01:35 PM	#14 (permalink)
chgocupl Here to Stay Join Date: Mar 2005 Posts: 11 Location: Chicago, IL	Swm with ed am I wasting my time I was always told as I grew up that if you CAN'T do anythng about a problem, DON'T worry about it, and if you CAN do something about a problem, DON'T worry about it!! The point I'm making is you CAN do something about the weight, and you should try. You CAN do something about a partner, and you should try. You CAN'T so anything, probably, about the ED, so don't worry about it, there are lots of other ways to satisfy a partner. Get to know those, and both of you will enjoy. I too, have ED, and my wife had a stroke 5 yrs ago. Both those facts are on our profile prominently so we get those out on the table up front. Those that don't like it will pass us by, to the many others that we have and currently swing with, it is obviously not a problem. Work on the issues you can fix, and remember life is short, make the most of it.