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**Alura** · 10-25-2008, 01:34 PM

John 1 asked:

How to explain it to her that I am ok with this, as long as we find a guy with who we are comfortable.

Judging from your posts, your communication is good enough that you needn't fear reprisals if you bring up the subject. Here's how I'd do it:

"Sweetheart, we've talked a lot about having group sex. If we were to find a man both of us liked, what rules would you like for us to have established before we do it?"

Have pencil and paper ready to write them down.

Next I'd ask:

"What specific sex acts would you like to try?"

Once y'all decide to go ahead, the partner search can begin. Be just as communicative when y'all do.

Mr. Alura

10-25-2008, 01:34 PM	#7 (permalink)
Alura Just a hick Okie Join Date: May 2001 Posts: 8,139 Location: Tulsa, Oklahoma Status: Widower	Re: How to explain to my wife that I really want to try swinging... John 1 asked: How to explain it to her that I am ok with this, as long as we find a guy with who we are comfortable. Judging from your posts, your communication is good enough that you needn't fear reprisals if you bring up the subject. Here's how I'd do it: "Sweetheart, we've talked a lot about having group sex. If we were to find a man both of us liked, what rules would you like for us to have established before we do it?" Have pencil and paper ready to write them down. Next I'd ask: "What specific sex acts would you like to try?" Once y'all decide to go ahead, the partner search can begin. Be just as communicative when y'all do. Mr. Alura
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