The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Single male with erectile dysfunction, am I wasting my time

***JustAskJulie*** · 10-24-2008, 04:22 PM

I'm curious you said you can get yourself off... so is it that you can get off but you just don't get hard? Or can you get yourself hard?

As others have said you are probably facing the ultimate in difficulty of trying to get into the lifestyle. You will probably have the most luck just as most single guys do... and that is by looking at people you already know, or by trying to get to know people as friends and move on from there. There are those couples who are only looking for a tongue (where the guy won't go down but she wants some oral) and you may be able to fill that void.

10-24-2008, 04:22 PM	#12 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 29,294 Location: In my House Status: Female Swing Lifestyle Name:swingersboard	Re: Swm with ed am I wasting my time I'm curious you said you can get yourself off... so is it that you can get off but you just don't get hard? Or can you get yourself hard? As others have said you are probably facing the ultimate in difficulty of trying to get into the lifestyle. You will probably have the most luck just as most single guys do... and that is by looking at people you already know, or by trying to get to know people as friends and move on from there. There are those couples who are only looking for a tongue (where the guy won't go down but she wants some oral) and you may be able to fill that void.