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Old 10-20-2008, 10:36 PM   #6 (permalink)
Mr.Essex
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Default Re: Hello there, Am I in the right place?

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Originally Posted by ClassicSWC View Post
Hello all, 1st post here. I have a couple questions and hopefully some folks can give me guidance.

My g/f and I have never had a 3 or 4some before. As a result of our vigourous and imaganitive sex life, I came up with the idea of wanting to watch her suck off a guy while I'm doing her. Nothing else though. She's up for that, but not any sort of couple's play.

Questions: are "swinging" places a good place to find a single guy, who will respect and understand those boundries?

How likely is it that another couple would let the husband just take part?

Ok, so what am I forgetting, missing etc. being a newbie? Be gentle though.

"Swinging places" have two advantages over Internet sites or personal ads: You can have a face to face meeting with your target and you can assume that your partner for the evening is actually interested in meeting a couple.
Of course, this is assuming that your (you and your wife's) desire is to have a one-off. Otherwise, my personal recommendation is for you to find a pet website, then make your intentions known to the regular posters. One hint, though: Make sure that your site is appropriate for your desires.
Literotica, for example, has a very efficient Personals board, but the amount of time needed to establish a connection can be daunting.
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