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Originally Posted by Unregistered  Here is where things start to get strange.....The room had mulitple people in it and he kept closing the door since he was close to it. Now, I am in the room and don't think all that much of it. The three of us are now involved, but he starts to pull the wife away from me into different positions so that she can't pay attention to me. He is aggressive but not overly rough. |
You did the right thing, but your timing was a bit off. When you felt it had started to go sideways you should have called a halt. Its gotta work for both of you. And, I wouldn't have left her alone with a strange, aggressive guy, particularly one who seemed so bent on closing the door.
It sounds like your wife was going right along with this guy. If she knew that this was not the sort of encounter (almost a cuckold scenario) that you were likely to enjoy, then she was over the line. If she didn't know, then you really do need to talk more about what you are each looking for... and to avoid.
I am not talking about a totally scripted event. No encounter is going to run to a script... and that's a big part of the excitement.... but there can be some very basic expectations that you can set. The hard part is when those hormones kick in and we are back one step removed from the caves. So keep it simple, and keep it fun. If you're not having fun, just what are you doing?