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swing52001 · 10-17-2008, 09:46 PM

skeghed, you need to talk this out with your hubby. Tell him what you think you want and tell him what you think your fears are. You will ultimately decide to go for it or not. Either way you will have come to the decision together and that will enhance your relationship. If you do decide to try a couples situation, make sure that the rules of engagement are well understood and maybe even the consequences of breaking them. He did jump the gun once before. Best to be prepared so that there are no further skirmishes at the expense of your mutual trust. Oh, one further admonishment. Do this for both of you not just for your hubby.

10-17-2008, 09:46 PM	#14 (permalink)
swing52001 Here to Stay Join Date: Jan 2005 Posts: 76 Location: Kawarthas, Ontario Status: married male	Re: Husband Surprised me With Couples Encounter skeghed, you need to talk this out with your hubby. Tell him what you think you want and tell him what you think your fears are. You will ultimately decide to go for it or not. Either way you will have come to the decision together and that will enhance your relationship. If you do decide to try a couples situation, make sure that the rules of engagement are well understood and maybe even the consequences of breaking them. He did jump the gun once before. Best to be prepared so that there are no further skirmishes at the expense of your mutual trust. Oh, one further admonishment. Do this for both of you not just for your hubby.