 Re: opening the door
Actually we initially decided to live an open marriage. Neither of us acted upon it but knew that if the situation came up the other was ok with it. Discussed that in our opinion alot of marriages split because people confused love/lust. We knew that you could totally be in love with each other but yet be sexually turned on to another.
Well, when we spoke more about it we then decided that it swinging was more what we wanted. We both enjoy seeing the other on pleased.
Glad that we have forums where we can see all the opinions that others face. Really helps when you hear others talk about things that you cant just talk about with anyone LOL.
Melody
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