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Originally Posted by crazi429  Hello all I have been here for several years but never got a start in the life style. My girlfriend Littlered has decided to move on so now I am single again. I just had a hip replacement last week so will be out of service for awhile. I hope to figure out someway to get involved in this life style as I really love sex and really don't care that I can't get a hard on. I have tried all the pills with very little results. I do plan to go to urologist as soon as everything is ok with the hip surgery. But my main question is am I wasting my time trying to get into this life style as a single overweight lip male. Even though I know how to use my large hands and tongue pretty well. |
You know, I've read several stories of paraplegic men who go to Nevada brothels. I'm not suggesting you do the same. But, if they can be sexually active, even with a penis that will never ever get up, so can you.
Decide what you want to achieve in swinging. Be the best at it you can be, and be clear about what you can and can't do. You might be surprised at the results. My wife for example finds very good body massages to be nearly as good as so-so sex.