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Originally Posted by JKlovers  I feel bad because I know that is his biggest fantasy (along with he would also like to cum in other older women who can no longer have children), but I am not really comfortable with that either.
I mean it doesn't make much sense if I'm practicing safe sex, and then my husband is beside me having unsafe sex and then having sex with me later.
So, have any of you dealt with this issue of one partner being okay with unprotected sex but not the other? To me this is pretty much a deal breaker because I don't ever see my thoughts changing, but I just cannot see my husband agreeing to wearing a condom. |
You've pretty much answered your own question there. You're not comfortable playing without condoms. You need to communicate these feelings to him. Either your husband respects your comfort level and plays by it, or you don't play (at least not to the point of full swap).
And you have every right to those feelings, whether he agrees/understands them or not.
=)