[realcplub2]

Hi Again,

As I said before, in the previous communications, you are just starting out, the rules and feeling you have towards whats acceptable evolve over time. Its also quite possibe that you might need to put the fantasy of his desires ( the cum, and cum again fantasy) off for a while until you either find play partners that you feel totally comfortable with, or have become comfortable with the lifestyle.

As far as your husband goes, again, unless you find people that would be comfortable with going bareback, he is going to have to glove up. In that, he really has two choices, do it, or go home.. place your bets which he chooses.

Being concerned over this issue doesnt make you a hypocondriact rather, in my opinion makes you a self consciencious adult, who has grown up thru the HIV era. I am sorry for your losses, and understand where you are coming from.

Its just another topic of conversation between you both, to work out, before you play. And make sure that safety is the topic of conversation when you are in talks with other folks. please do not leave it up to anyone else..

Ultimately, its your body..