[jjtrindc]

Totally agree with BB's last statement. Don't let one scene define what the lifestyle is. I think we'll all agree that the good experiences far outnumber the bad ones. Unfortunate things do happen in the lifestyle...but that's life.

As for us, we do tend to only meet people through sites like Swing Lifestyle, but we take our time. Emails, pic trades (g rated only), phone calls if they want...followed by a meeting in a very public place like a restaurant or bar if we get a good vibe. Sure, we've had meetings that have ended a dinner but ultimately, we've been very happy with our experiences. Of course, some don't like our "drawn out" way of meeting, but that is what works for us and that is what we'll stick with.