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Originally Posted by summers30s  ...hubby needs some encouragment from other members here hopefully she would overcome her fears and go to a swingers club... |
I get the feeling that what you are looking for is added pressure from Board members to get your wife to do things she's not comfortable with. I doubt she was truly ready to give that Doc a BJ.
Your Swing Lifestyle profile has been up since 2005 and you mention her two experiences back then. If things haven't progressed since then I think there is good reason, she's not comfortable with what you ask of her...and this whole idea of swinging was yours, afterall, as you state in your profile.
And what's with the SINGLE FEMALE profile? That's not truthful. I think you're wanting a hotwife and your interest in swinging is very self-centered. I can't help but think that your wife's shyness is more a reflection of her inability to tell you how she really feels and to say no to you.
I cannot give you suggestions to talk your wife into doing what she's done in the past because I don't feel that it would be right.
LM