We have friends that are dealing with this same situation. Unfortunately they are not dealing with it very well and I hope, if you do choose to play during this time, you can avoid the same pitfalls. Having been there (pregnant), there are hormone induced emotions that cannot be controlled, including a woman's views of her changing body. The female half of this couple has made comments of feeling like she has the plague because no one touches her...as if she's contageous.
And while this couple has always been a "plays together" couple, it seems the male half feels he shouldn't have to miss out on anything just because she's not getting any attention. I have witnessed him answering are they open swing questions in the affirmative with the explanation that his wife is pregnant.
I know we are new to the site, and I am not at all suggesting that this is bound to happen with all couples, just an observation made that I hope others can avoid.
Good luck with your decision and your upcoming birth. The fact that you are asking about it shows you are putting a great deal of thought into your decision.
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