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Old 09-15-2008, 12:25 PM   #11 (permalink)
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Default Re: Polyamory - a passing fancy or a new trend?

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Originally Posted by mixtupcpl View Post
My guess is that poly relationships in cultures where they are not the norm have always occurred in some small percentage and always will and will likely NEVER be "acceptable". There are MUCH simpler things that society has proven incapable of handling (gay marriage GLARES here)
I think it's true that in "general" society, it's a difficult concept to grasp.

Interestingly, however, I was with a bunch of great women this weekend on a girls weekend. They are all close enough friends that they know us as a triad. We got on to the topic of my relationships, and without exception, they said they don't even think about it any more, because it just seems "normal" that I would have a husband and a partner.

Bear in mind that these people aren't swingers, although a couple of them are lesbians. I think I'm just REALLY fortunate that I have a great group of open-minded friends. When you think about it, life is just too freaking short to even waste time having friends who you couldn't be yourself with.
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