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Originally Posted by mixtupcpl  Well as long as everyone's happy. If at some point it seems like "slower" = "never" you can always just cut it off.
I'm sure everyone here was just reacting to the fact that in your initial post you seemed pretty uncomfortable with the situation.
Bait and switch happens a lot, so if it bothers you, it does pay to realize that. It isnt just something that gets discussed here on the forums for the heck of it  If you dont mind, then its a non-issue. |
We really appreciate everyones input, and we were uneasy with the situation. I think it's just a case of different mind sets. We have committed to being swingers and I don't think they (she) are full steam ahead yet. So we decided that when we hang out with this couple the speed of play will be set by the slowest in the group and won't go any further. We like them a lot and if our play with them is limited to frolicking in the hot tub... groovy. They were our first couple and we were just damn ready to play. I don't think there is any thing wrong with having playmates with different levels of play... it's all good.
We have been making new friends and having a good time. Wow! I think we are making some progress in the lifestyle here!