Hi, thank you very much for useful comments.
I had no idea it was posted elswehere Just Ask Julie, it really was my mistake. I wondered where the original had got to and posted it again. I wasn't perturbed by any answers because I hadn't read any.
We'll probably not be swinging for up to 18 months we reckon when one considers the breast feeding scenario. But where there's a will there's a way and swing clubbing and own partner sex may be a nice option.
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