If sex is not mandated from above, why do we yell "Oh my God" so much?
We are in the boat where the wife is "dogged" by the dogma. She has been willing to do soft swing with the right people but refuses to go all the way. I see no issue with it at all but will run at her pace. When she feels right, it may happen. We have had a couple folks over that we found were atheist, needless to say, they did not stay long by our choice.
We wonder to if there are many "conservative" swingers like us but I know there are. We are trying to build a group of them on Swing Lifestyle and it only took a couple days to find some members so we know you are out there.
We "may be" sinners but we "know" we are forgiven.