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**TNT** · 09-29-2002, 12:51 PM

I don't think it is a taboo issue. I just think that most people here are past that stage in their lives.

For us, our 'baby' is 11 years old, and no, there won't be any more here, so we will never be faced with this issue.

I can tell you that during all of my pregnancies, I would not have wanted to play with anybody. I was extremely horny during my pregnancies, but also very self conscious about my looks as well.

A pregnancy is a very special time for both soon to be parents. I just would not have felt comfortable at all sharing that with anyone else.

There are those out there who probably would and do feel comfortable playing at this time.

We did have some friends that we had played with and when she did become pregnant, they wanted to continue playing, but neither of us (myself and hubby) were comfortable with it, so we politely turned them down. It just was not our thing.

Do what you both feel comfortable with and be honest with those that you do play with. Just remember, at this time it is no longer just the two of you, you have to worry about, there is a little one on the way that you must also consider now.

Good luck,
Teresa

09-29-2002, 12:51 PM	#8 (permalink)
TNT Julie's Helper Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 5,003 Location: baker, fl, usa Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:tblonde312	I don't think it is a taboo issue. I just think that most people here are past that stage in their lives. For us, our 'baby' is 11 years old, and no, there won't be any more here, so we will never be faced with this issue. I can tell you that during all of my pregnancies, I would not have wanted to play with anybody. I was extremely horny during my pregnancies, but also very self conscious about my looks as well. A pregnancy is a very special time for both soon to be parents. I just would not have felt comfortable at all sharing that with anyone else. There are those out there who probably would and do feel comfortable playing at this time. We did have some friends that we had played with and when she did become pregnant, they wanted to continue playing, but neither of us (myself and hubby) were comfortable with it, so we politely turned them down. It just was not our thing. Do what you both feel comfortable with and be honest with those that you do play with. Just remember, at this time it is no longer just the two of you, you have to worry about, there is a little one on the way that you must also consider now. Good luck, Teresa
	__________________ Ted and Teresa No lifetime is enough unless you live it in such a way as to make it enough.