 Re: Time to move on?
Simple case of miscommunication... and another example of why texting is not the best way to communicate. You knew what you meant and where you were coming from but it's very easy to see why the other guy (and most of us) would have read it differently.
You'd already had one mfm threesome (WITH YOUR WIFE) so it's fairly easy to see where he would have read that into your message. To me what you wrote back would have implied (with your wife) simply on that basis.
That said, the situation with his wife going to bed early and leaving the three of you to continue was a bit of a red flag to me and makes me wonder if there is not some truth to your thought that perhaps they don't really play as a team. However, I don't know of much anyone who would have taken your second text message positively regardless of the situation or the way you meant it. Had you left off the second sentance you would have been fine and might have even found yourself in the threesome with his wife that you were forseeing, but now you will never know.
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