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***JustAskJulie*** · 09-09-2008, 05:04 PM

As much as I want to, I'm not going to touch your past history with my thoughts....

The truth is there is no magic answer to finding women predisposed to the idea of swinging. What you can do is find women who are open-minded and therefore might be willing to try something new. That said, at your age... well you've heard the saying about teaching old dogs new tricks. In the end, I hope you've learned one thing and that's that the fact that a woman is willing to TRY something to make you happy does not mean that there is any chance in hell that her doing what you want is going to make her happy. It has to be something she wants to do FOR HER, not FOR YOU.

09-09-2008, 05:04 PM	#13 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 29,294 Location: In my House Status: Female Swing Lifestyle Name:swingersboard	Re: Divorced mature male - any chance for me to find a female interested in swinging? As much as I want to, I'm not going to touch your past history with my thoughts.... The truth is there is no magic answer to finding women predisposed to the idea of swinging. What you can do is find women who are open-minded and therefore might be willing to try something new. That said, at your age... well you've heard the saying about teaching old dogs new tricks. In the end, I hope you've learned one thing and that's that the fact that a woman is willing to TRY something to make you happy does not mean that there is any chance in hell that her doing what you want is going to make her happy. It has to be something she wants to do FOR HER, not FOR YOU.