I think it's easy to feel guilt the first time you swing as it's not something that is considered the norm in mainstream marriage and you are entering into a new way of life which means that you'll be changing the way you were brought up to think about certain things.
We felt guilty after our first time but it didn't hit until about a few days later and the guilt was sort of "what are we doing to our marriage?" type of thing but it was very short lived feeling for us I think as we both realized that this is perfect for us and we got off on it.
I think guilt like jealousy can be something that is experienced when a couple first begins to expand their marriage and I think it's a healthy transition and one that is almost necessary. Once you move past it, you've earned your wings.
Okay, so I probably don't make much sense to anyone! Lol, but I hope you get the gist somewhere in my ramblings.
J (the lady of the couple known as J & M)
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