[herpob]

Here are a few questions for any folks out there who are bisexual:

Is your current bisexual status based on a decision to change your orientation, or have you been bisexual your whole life?

No orientation change and no I have not been bisexual my whole life nor do I consider myself now, but the definitions of bisexuality stats that I have been for quite some time and my more recent actions confirm the definitions.

If it was a decision, what were your influences? (ie. magazines, spousal encouragement, acting on curiosities, etc.)

I have never been into women – I simply loooove men, but I also loooove sex. Sex is sex is sex with me, machine, toy, male, female, doll, whatever. If I am having sex and a female joins in up till recently I merely concentrated on the males. Yes I had been eaten by girls, breasts sucked, fingered, dildoed, etc. and it was pleasurable but again my focus was on the guys we were with. Recently my husband set up a group session where the females concentrated on me though I still focused on the men. I admit I am a cum addict and in the heat of things I wound up eating cum out of several females that weekend and licking clean many freshly coated penises pulled directly from the ladies. I wound up in more than a few female 69s with cum, cream, and juice running all over me in some serious female on female oral fests. I was so hot and horny I didn’t care who I was having sex with. The kissing with my husband after each episode was hotter than hot!

So sex in itself is my influence. The hotter I get the more likely I will do anything with anyone. The more sex I get in a weekend the more I want and with whoever. I am not curious about the female body, I have one, I know it well, I know what pleases it. I still love men, I still crave cock and cum, but I will have sex with females and no longer just receiving it. I’ll eat a wife or two or three out but I do not desire them, crave them, or want them, I simply do it because it feels good or they are enjoying it. Of course I have sex with other females for my husband quite often now and love that aspect of it tremendously! I’ll do anything he directs or asks to see and have no problem with that. I still have yet to ever see a female, even one I think is attractive, and WANT her! Although I have seen some that I thought it might be fun to have sex with in a group with my husband or with some of the other husbands. Have enjoyed watching other ladies have sex, mostly with the men but also having fun with one another, I love to watch people enjoy themselves and I repeat I love sex watching it is just as fun occasionally.

If you've been bisexual your whole life, were there influences that made you think that you were other than bisexual? (ie. getting married and having a family, more same-sex relationships than norm, etc.)

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How have you found your current status beneficial to your personal growth?

By not being inhibited or hindered to any limitations has opened up a wide variety of sexual opportunities for our marriage. No one ever has to stop because someone doesn’t like that particular set up. We all share body fluids, no biggy anymore, kissing is better, penetration is freer, certainly we are careful about hygiene and what has been where and take breaks for clean up accordingly. I have even had females kiss me with mouthfuls of… and no problem with the kissing. Getting kissed by a female does nothing for me except that it is like kissing anyone when I am hot and bothered. Add in the mouthful and I go nuts no matter who it is. My husband especially loves to watch the female kissing; he says it is one of the most erotic things he has witnessed so I do it for him as well. I can kiss a female passionately but again it is not a desire I have, I merely can do it.

Summation - before, I could let a female have sex with me, now I can have sex with other females, BUT I could never Make Love to a Female!