The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Are they team players? Or were they leading us on?

mixtupcpl · 09-08-2008, 09:37 AM

I agree with the above. I think there is possibly more risk of what you're describing if you choose not to take the friends route and you'll have to be more able to just write it off (since you're not friends, they're gone and it's done)

I tend to like to talk. I'm a pain in the ass that way. I would just call the guy. Do you have their number? Rather than text or email (which are actually really bad methods of communication when it comes to intimate issues)

I would just say "hey man, just want to make sure that what I was saying didnt come off wrong. We had fun with you guys (assuming you did) and want to hang with you again (assuming you do) but its just important for the wife and I that everyone is on the same page"

Thats all assuming that this is something you even want to bother with, yeah? Only you know that.

09-08-2008, 09:37 AM	#10 (permalink)
mixtupcpl Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 321 Location: Pennsylvania Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:mixtupcpl	Re: Time to move on? I agree with the above. I think there is possibly more risk of what you're describing if you choose not to take the friends route and you'll have to be more able to just write it off (since you're not friends, they're gone and it's done) I tend to like to talk. I'm a pain in the ass that way. I would just call the guy. Do you have their number? Rather than text or email (which are actually really bad methods of communication when it comes to intimate issues) I would just say "hey man, just want to make sure that what I was saying didnt come off wrong. We had fun with you guys (assuming you did) and want to hang with you again (assuming you do) but its just important for the wife and I that everyone is on the same page" Thats all assuming that this is something you even want to bother with, yeah? Only you know that.