My wife told me about this post, so I wanted to read it. I'm glad she is able to talk this out with others that have experienced the same thing. I have to admit, I was quite lost when she came to me almost 2 weeks after the club in tears over it. I wasn't sure how to comfort her. I mean, she was feeling guilty about cheating on ME, and confiding in ME about it, and I told her at every pass that I was ok with it. In a lot of ways, we have a lot to acclimatize ourselves to in this lifestyle. I must admit, the very first time I saw another man initiate intercourse with my wife, I had a pang of anxiety. It was like the ghost of an echo of a jealousy that should have been there, and then she looked at me with love in her eyes, and that demon died before it ever took root.
I can only hope that it works that way for her the first time she sees me doing the same with another woman.
Allen