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Originally Posted by ShagUsThx  Crap! I did not mean it as a dig, I just meant that the wife and I did not want 3 somes as our main thing. We like teams meaning couples. We can find single guys any time!
We have been communicating with them very well and they opened the relationship about how his wife had all of these mfm experiences with him and his friends and now they are ready to find some couples. So naturally it seemed wierd to us that she was not "ready". I asked him straight up if she was not into me and he said that was not the case. It just started feeling like we were being baited. Especially after today's exchange. |
I got what you meant, and I'm sure no dig was intended. Heck, I've put my foot in my mouth so often, it has teeth marks. Sometimes things just don't come across the way we want 'em to, especially if you have the tendency to be a smartass. A simple apology would help smooth the way, but I don't know that it would make a difference in the overall outcome.
Seems to me the elusive other wife either just isn't into you or is into swinging for the girl/girl action. It happens. And since your wife isn't that hot on the other Mister, I'd day it's time to move on. (But you already knew that, didn't you?)
Best of luck to ya'll,
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