The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Taking one for the team: How long can this go on?

jid2008 · 09-06-2008, 03:54 AM

Thank you all for your replies!! It seems pretty unanimous...it should stop if we aren't both into it.

To Alura, you shouldn't be offended by my comments. For my wife and me, swinging is about enjoying each other and enjoying having a new body in the bedroom, spicing things up. There is no emotional connection, it is strictly for fun, excitement, and pure sexuality. There are plenty of girls that have great personalities that I wouldn't want to hop in bed with.

I guess my thinking is that if I continue "taking one for the team" that sometime when I find a girl that is to my liking, my wife will do the same if she finds the guy unattractive. But as another poster said, my wife isn't nearly worried about physical characteristics as I am. How am I supposed to stay hard with a girl that just doesn't do it for me?? Tonight if I didn't watch my wife's beautiful ass bouncing up and down on the other guy, I don't think I could have stayed hard. If she thinks someone is clean and finds the girl somewhat attractive, she is down to play. She gets in the mode and she is ready to go.

09-06-2008, 03:54 AM	#7 (permalink)
jid2008 Here to Stay Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 20 Location: St. Louis, MO Status: Couple (married)	Re: How long can this go on? Thank you all for your replies!! It seems pretty unanimous...it should stop if we aren't both into it. To Alura, you shouldn't be offended by my comments. For my wife and me, swinging is about enjoying each other and enjoying having a new body in the bedroom, spicing things up. There is no emotional connection, it is strictly for fun, excitement, and pure sexuality. There are plenty of girls that have great personalities that I wouldn't want to hop in bed with. I guess my thinking is that if I continue "taking one for the team" that sometime when I find a girl that is to my liking, my wife will do the same if she finds the guy unattractive. But as another poster said, my wife isn't nearly worried about physical characteristics as I am. How am I supposed to stay hard with a girl that just doesn't do it for me?? Tonight if I didn't watch my wife's beautiful ass bouncing up and down on the other guy, I don't think I could have stayed hard. If she thinks someone is clean and finds the girl somewhat attractive, she is down to play. She gets in the mode and she is ready to go.