 Re: How long can this go on?
That's a toughie. The ladies really seem to like each other, but if you're not attracted to the other person, then there's really nothing for it.
I'd say you and the wife need to put swinging on hold altogether until you can figure out a way to play where you're both happy. While I see Alura's point, there's no point in swinging unless you're both enjoying it.
Best of luck to ya'll . . .
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