[lustylearning]

Originally Posted by jid2008

My wife and I have gotten with a couple twice.

The first time we got together, the other girl was wearing a summer dress, and all I could tell was "Wow, she has some big tits!" Well, then her clothes came off. She was so skinny, I never thought her face was that great, and she has NO ass (and I am an ass man, completely, 100%). Completely unattracted to her, but it felt good because it was the first time I was with another woman in 7 years and she looked decent in her summer dress.

Well, the next time came along. This time we all went to a mall and she was wearing jeans. These especially accentuated her having NO ASS. By this time I am completely turned off. We all 4 played, and I barely touched her at all. For one, her husband goes down on her instantly and makes disgusting slurping sounds. I'm not cool with sucking some other dudes spit out of a girls vag, especially a girl that im not even attracted to's vag.

Both men are both fully prepared to let our wives play together. They are into each other (my wife likes kissing women, and I think it turned her on that she is able to give this chick and orgasm). I have no problem with that.
Well, rather than going f/f and leaving me out of it (I absolutely DREAD it all day if I know we are going out with this couple), the girls have decided they want to go....drumroll..FULL SWAP! Yay. Yuck. Any way, my wife blows up and decides I am a "jerk" and a "dickhead" and I "care about no one but myself" because I don't want to have sex with this girl.

She brings up that she was willing to get with a couple of couples that had unattractive men "for me," but those never happened any way. I suggested, okay, maybe we should just get with couples that we are both attracted to...That's fine! But no, I'm still a dick and a jerk who cares about no one but himself.

What do I do? Do I keep dreading DAYS AHEAD of the time I am to meet this couple because I have to try and "perform" with a girl that I find unattractive? Or do I tell the wife to get with the girl, leave me out of it, or move on? I'm sick of this!

Oh dear It is so much easier for a woman to take one for the team physically speaking. And I think many women do it because they believe there will be some sort of payoff. Regardless, I don't think either one of you should do it. Just my opinion. And you've got to be honest. Otherwise, the no-ass woman may wind up hurt, thinking there's something more wrong than a simple, "sorry, babe. you just don't do it for me." Stop now. It only gets worst if you continue the facade.