SecretAsianMan,
No worries. Wasn't trying to make you feel bad... just reference.
As to the fetishes or fantasies. My wife and I have been working together to get her comfortable with anal penetration. We are only at small toys and fingers right now. One of the ladies at the parties we regularly attend has been so kind as to consent to have anal play with me during our next 'play date' or party.
I had enjoyed anal a few times with an older woman that had kicked my feet out from under me after I turned 18 (I call her my sexual teacher). Until my wife, I had not been with another woman willing to even try anal intercourse. Now with the prospect of a play partner also letting me indulge, I will be able to give my wife a third person perspective. :p
That's probably the one that is closest to being fulfilled in the near future.
My only other 'big' fantasy is being 'serviced' and servicing two or more women at once. Whether they are bi and playing with each other at the same time is not vital... I guess I just want to be pampered and feel like I have a small harem.
