SecretAsianMan,
My profile was created initially as stated in an above post. I didn't feel it necessary to combine them by creating a new profile called "JustMrandMrsJ" as it is usually me who actively posts. She has done some, but I respond more and she reads more (lurking

).
She has never really felt comfortable posting on forum boards... she's more of an active reader and talker. I'm still working on teaching her that posting on forums is a regular conversation... just really slow... not as slow as penpals used to be, but slower than a live chat.
If there is a topic that I feel she would really enjoy reading or has some excellent information that pertains more to her, then I usually point it out.
Cheers!