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Originally Posted by 2for2nc  Well this is kind of tame for a lot of you I know but it was exciting for us. We had our first date with another couple! Met them on Swing Lifestyle and made a date for dinner and drinks. The best part for us is that they turned out to be a very "normal" couple. Being new we were kind of worried about meeting some stalkers or something. 
Conversation was great and we decided to go dancing afterwards. The only downside to the evening was that it went by so fast. Nothing really swing related happened. It was just two couples out together having a good time.
The only mistake I think that we made was sending them a couple of messages the day after. Nothing weird just saying we had a great time and would love to do it again sometime. We were just excited to meet someone we were interested in and wanted to know if they felt the same way.
I hope we didn't come across as too agressive...
Now I'm worried that they are going to think we are stalking them or something.  I guess we will just lay off for awhile and let them make the next move. What do you guys think? I feel like I'm in the 7th grade again..lol |
I wouldn't worry about it. Be yourself. If you stay true to who you are, you will draw those that like you for you, and "appearances" will become less important.