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Originally Posted by jjtrindc  .
Don't adjust your profile or approach to please others. At the end of the day you want to meet couples who are interested in you for who you are as a couple. If you start changing your approach you may find that you are attracting couples that aren't necessarily your type. Keep at it, there are enough couples out there and you'll eventually connect.
In the meantime, try parties or meet n greets. And for all of you "non-responders" out there, please be courteous. We always always always respond. We really hate it when others don't. |
Those are good points too. We do attend clubs and parties and that is where we meet most of the people we know. There are a lot of really nice folks out there that don't go to clubs and we really aren't partiers or bar-type people ourselves so we are open to meeting people privately in more personal settings. What has prompted me putting up this thread though is we have written to several people lately that seem like we should be great matches but haven't heard back from a one. When you come up with a dead end again and again and again you can't help but wonder if you are doing something wrong.