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Old 08-31-2008, 04:01 PM   #5 (permalink)
arvcpl
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Default Re: Need advice on how to deliver a first contact message

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Originally Posted by good times View Post
We have found that it doesn't really matter what one says in the initial email. If a couple finds you hot, they will reply back with interest, if not, they won't, or will send a no thanks.

I used to think what was said in the initial email was important, but then one day I realized I generally only criticized lame emails if we wouldn't have been interested anyway. The fact is, we have gotten some emails that said nothing more than "Hi there", that we pursued because we looked at their profile and were interested.
Good point. although now I'm really kinda bummed because now I'll interpret all the dead ends are because we suck At least beforehand I could have blamed it on that I said the wrong thing.
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