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**good times** · 08-31-2008, 03:53 PM

We have found that it doesn't really matter what one says in the initial email. If a couple finds you hot, they will reply back with interest, if not, they won't, or will send a no thanks.

I used to think what was said in the initial email was important, but then one day I realized I generally only criticized lame emails if we wouldn't have been interested anyway. The fact is, we have gotten some emails that said nothing more than "Hi there", that we pursued because we looked at their profile and were interested.

08-31-2008, 03:53 PM	#4 (permalink)
good times Mod Squad Member Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 6,919 Location: Reno, Nevada Status: Married to Mrs Good Times Swing Lifestyle Name:randp	Re: Need advice on how to deliver a first contact message We have found that it doesn't really matter what one says in the initial email. If a couple finds you hot, they will reply back with interest, if not, they won't, or will send a no thanks. I used to think what was said in the initial email was important, but then one day I realized I generally only criticized lame emails if we wouldn't have been interested anyway. The fact is, we have gotten some emails that said nothing more than "Hi there", that we pursued because we looked at their profile and were interested.
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